My Grandma.

My grandma, Linda, passed away one year ago, September 19, 2019. I think everyone should know about her, who she was.    Let me start with this, no one deserves a Linda. If you have someone in your life even slightly as amazing as my grandma, they are a gift to you. People like her…

My Classes, My Career.

My classes have made me realize a lot about what I want in my career. I used to want to be an anesthesiologist, but organic chemistry killed my hopes and dreams. I realized I didn’t want to spend a majority of my life in school and the rest working. I wanted something flexible so I…

Ever-Changing.

Life is ever-changing; nothing stays the same. There are rarely any constants that we can rely on, but that doesn’t mean we have to sit and wallow in our own pity. As human beings, we focus on our desires and often forget to think of others. To be happy in life, you have to learn…

Conflicts I Have Resolved.

Conflicts can sometimes be difficult to resolve, so in my HDO class we’ve learned about different strategies to handle conflicts. There are four methods for solving disputes: 1. Arbitration – Power goes to the arbiter, 2. Mediation – The disputes need to agree, 3. Votes – Majority rules, 4. Juries – A consensus. I recently…

HDO – What I’ve Noticed.

Since beginning HDO, I’ve noticed a lot things. For instance, people are often extremely self conscious when they don’t know someone very well. They’re careful with the things they say and do. People fit into categories just as their relationships do. I’ve also noticed how easily relationships can be strained. For instance, you could say…

Anger?

I gave you everything I could. My time, my energy, my love, my money. What did I get? I got to be with you. I didn’t get your energy. I didn’t get your love. I don’t even care about your money. You led me to believe that I meant something, but in actuality it’s because…

Note to Self:

I promise you’re fine; you’ll be okay. What you’re feeling is normal, and you are normal. It is okay to feel upset. You cannot stop from feeling, you can only go through the motions. You won’t be overcome by them because you are strong enough to handle this. Do not lash out on other people…

When You’re Anxious or Overwhelmed.

Everyone gets anxious and overwhelmed sometimes, but other people may experience it more often. The episodes can be mild or extreme, and you may not know how to handle them. I decided to write about things that help me when I’m feeling overwhelmed. One thing I like to do when I’m anxious is sit in…

50 Things That Make Me Happy.

I decided to make a list of 50 things that make me happy because sometimes we forget about the good things in life. We sometimes forget to appreciate the little, ordinary things. Spending time with my family. I love to hangout with my family because they are my best friends. I don’t want time to…

Do I Love You?

Do I love you? Of course I do. I’m surprised you haven’t realized that already. Have you seen the way I look at you? You could ask anyone I’ve talked to about us, even they know I love you, and I’ve never said it. I want to spend all of my time with you. I…